9 year old girl writes “Diary of Death”
“I would jump off the building and die at school, so that I would not hear the teacher tell me to lie, and my classmates would not dare to bully me, and I would never hear the teacher scold me again.
“I died at school so the uncle police could catch the badass teacher.”
“Can you believe that the author of such a diary turned out to be a primary school girl only 9 years old?
This diary is a diary written by Yingying (pseudonym) in the fourth grade of a primary school in Ganjingzi District, Dalian in May 2003.
When she saw the reporter, she was a little nervous. Although she didn’t like talking, she gradually relaxed and even researched the reporter’s glasses.
During the conversation, the reporter learned that Yingying loves animals, loves nature, and is most willing to see the lions and tigers in the zoo.
Like many elementary school students, I like to eat cherries and watch the cartoon “Doraemon” . Although the atmosphere has been very pleasant during the interview for more than an hour, the reporter still saw from Yingying’s eyes that she was very youngProportionate sorrow.
On May 31, the school organized the children to watch the performance. On Children’s Day, Yingying’s mother promised to take her to the labor park and children’s park to play. The mother also prepared a large schoolbag full of delicious food.
Yingying is very happy. She has a good mother. She feels very content, much better than last year’s Children’s Day (just during the SARS period).
9岁女孩写出死亡日记 据莹莹的妈妈讲，莹莹的日记是她去年5月份在检查孩子的算草本时，发现孩子原来还有日记作业，她好奇地翻到这篇日记时，“”I will jump off the building and die at school” suddenly appeared in front of Yingying’s mother.
She could hardly believe her eyes, she was surprised, how could her daughter’s psychology be such a state; she felt more afraid and afraid of losing her daughter (Yingying is a single parent family).
For some reason, Yingying was unhappy with the original class teacher.
Yingying feels that the teacher is especially bad for her, and everything is against her and she is against her.
Even the classmates did not dare to play with her under the teacher’s advice. She wrote a “diary of death” in extreme anger and pain, when she was only 9 years old.
Yingying’s mother brought the former class teacher and Yingying’s school to the court for the “Diary of Death”. Recently, after mediation by the Ganjingzi District Court, Yingying’s school agreed to pay Yingying’s economic assistance fee of 3,000 yuan.
”I want to grow up quickly” When a reporter asked how old she was this year, she exaggeratedly said that I was 11 years old (actually only 10 years old).
She always hopes that she will grow up quickly and become an adult, and she is more willing to play with children older than her.
Speaking of those thick “death diaries”, Yingying said that it was actually the homework assigned by the teacher. She was unwilling to write a diary. When the reporter asked if you were not afraid that the teacher would say you after seeing it?
She said firmly, not afraid.
From her speech and behavior, the reporter found that she had a lot of unwillingness to say, a lot of helplessness, a lot of reluctance, and even a lot of hate that did not fit her age.
When the reporter asked her whether she had a lot of dreams or nightmares, she hesitated and answered that she still had more nightmares.
Yingying’s mother said that her daughter is now much better, and at least she would not cry inexplicably like before.
What is worrying is that Yingying does not want to forget all the previous unhappiness.
She said that she must keep in mind who is good to her and who is not good to her, and remember for a lifetime.
Who and why forced such a young girl to write such a “death diary” may not be clear to us forever, but no matter who it is, it is outrageous because of these “death diaries”Already seriously hurt a little girl’s pure heart.
Who will soothe the mind of the child? Director Wang Renyong of the United Psychological Counseling Institute told reporters that Yingying’s single-parent family is likely to be the root cause of the child’s character.
Due to the instability of the family, children’s psychology is very easy to be unbalanced, sensitive, sensitive, paranoid, and self-centered.
Because of the lack of security of children in single-parent families, children have less communication with the outside world, long-term depression, low self-esteem, unconfidence, and poor adaptability.
But on the other hand, children’s ability to write their own words in the diary is also a release of children’s psychological pressure. It can also be said to be a good thing for children’s mental health.
The occurrence of this incident also reflects the weakness of school psychological education. He once again called on schools to pay attention to psychological education regardless of size. Mental health counseling rooms should be set up to train specialized psychological counseling teachers to teach psychology courses.